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Month: February 2025

The Seeing Sequence Meets My Helping Others

The Problem

I don’t believe helping others is a problem. I’m just naturally generous. I love solving other people’s problems: helping them out, offering advice, giving them things. I do it even if they aren’t asking me to. I feel tense if I don’t. And I feel hurt, baffled, even angry if they refuse my help.

The Cause

Not upbringing, not experiences. Instead, psr’s. Psr = inappropriate or imaginary problem solving response. It’s not real solving of real stuff. Ipsr is too long and doesn’t roll off the tongue well, so … psr – problem solving response.

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The Seeing Sequence Meets Shyness

The Problem

You’re shy. As a result you’re temporarly blocked from trying to connect to me. It triggers in me boredom, then detached amateur analysis, then, worst of all, doing the work of connecting for you.

The Cause

Not upbringing, not experiences. Instead, psr’s. Psr = inappropriate or imaginary problem solving response. It’s not real solving of real stuff. Ipsr is too long and doesn’t roll off the tongue well, so … psr – problem solving response.

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